Why "Eight Is Not Enough"?
When we were younger, there was a television sitcom that was called "Eight is Enough". The television watching world was entertained with the thought of a family with eight children. Most of us were shocked at the prospect of such a large family- myself included! Then ever so slowly, God began to work on our hearts, until we surrendered to Him all of our lives- yes even gave Him sovereign control over the size of our family and He has blessed us immeasurably, with eight biological children. Each of these children have been an amazing gift to us and we cherish each of them. And we praised God for them and felt to ourselves "eight is enough" - at least for a time.
Then God began to stir our hearts. It was as if He spoke to say to us "these 8 precious children I have given to you, but what have you given to my orphans in return?" A burden began to build on our hearts to adopt. We knew that for us God still had other plans for us as parents if we would be faithful to His calling- that eight is not enough. And so, we followed this call to adopted and He has continued to blessed us through adoption. First a sibling group of three from Soacha, Colombia. They joined our family in November, 2008. In May 2010, we adopted twin infants from Texas. In September of 2012 we were privileged to return to Colombia and adopt a sibling group of two from Cali. At this time, we anxiously wait for our travel date to depart for China where a very special girl and boy wait for their forever family. By the time they all reach adulthood, we will have had the amazing privilege to be parents of children in our home for a half century. Our life is full beyond measure, beyond our wildest expectations, yes even beyond anything we could have ever hoped. Truly, eight is not enough. As of late we have wondered if God's plan for us as parents all along was not for eight children, but rather eight plus eight. Our heavenly Father knows and His word assures us "I know the plans I have made for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you." We trust He knows the number of His children He wants us to love and to nurture on His behalf, and whether that is eight or eighty times eight we stand ready and say speak Lord, your servants are listening and are prepared to be father and mother to your fatherless on earth.
Our Girl Emily
We finalized Emily's adoption this morning. The Civil Affairs office in this city does not make a big ceremony out of the finalization like Chongqing did. You answer a few questions sign one piece of paper and it is over. It did not go so smoothly for us this time. When Emily saw the worker from her orphanage she went into meltdown. So... here are the pictures from us signing the papers with Emily in her state of total meltdown. It was just too traumatic for her to see the la
dy from her orphanage.
We have decided it will be too much for her to go to the orphanage on Thursday. So one of us will go to the orphanage while the other stays at the hotel with Emily and Zach. Tomorrow morning we will try to take a picture with Emily, the adoption certificate and us when she is not crying. Other than this one incident all has been great and we are getting along famously.
Also some pictures from everyday life! At breakfast I offered Emily Chopsticks and she pushed them away and went for the fork. Seams she knows what to expect for her new life. Zach just goes and leans on the bed when he is ready for a nap and falls asleep standing up! Too funny.
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How cute! Rejoicing with you in these two precious gifts from God.
~Nate Wilson
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