Why "Eight Is Not Enough"?

When we were younger, there was a television sitcom that was called "Eight is Enough". The television watching world was entertained with the thought of a family with eight children. Most of us were shocked at the prospect of such a large family- myself included! Then ever so slowly, God began to work on our hearts, until we surrendered to Him all of our lives- yes even gave Him sovereign control over the size of our family and He has blessed us immeasurably, with eight biological children. Each of these children have been an amazing gift to us and we cherish each of them. And we praised God for them and felt to ourselves "eight is enough" - at least for a time.

Then God began to stir our hearts. It was as if He spoke to say to us "these 8 precious children I have given to you, but what have you given to my orphans in return?" A burden began to build on our hearts to adopt. We knew that for us God still had other plans for us as parents if we would be faithful to His calling- that eight is not enough. And so, we followed this call to adopted and He has continued to blessed us through adoption. First a sibling group of three from Soacha, Colombia. They joined our family in November, 2008. In May 2010, we adopted twin infants from Texas. In September of 2012 we were privileged to return to Colombia and adopt a sibling group of two from Cali. At this time, we anxiously wait for our travel date to depart for China where a very special girl and boy wait for their forever family. By the time they all reach adulthood, we will have had the amazing privilege to be parents of children in our home for a half century. Our life is full beyond measure, beyond our wildest expectations, yes even beyond anything we could have ever hoped. Truly, eight is not enough. As of late we have wondered if God's plan for us as parents all along was not for eight children, but rather eight plus eight. Our heavenly Father knows and His word assures us "I know the plans I have made for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you." We trust He knows the number of His children He wants us to love and to nurture on His behalf, and whether that is eight or eighty times eight we stand ready and say speak Lord, your servants are listening and are prepared to be father and mother to your fatherless on earth.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Where has time gone????

We did it! We reached 100 days! Thanks for the great idea Hagerty family! :o) Things are going great for us. The kids are so much fun! We have our days but for the most part we have adjusted to having three more around the house.


Tuesday is Jason's birthday and he can hardly wait! He saw his name on the calendar and asked if it was his "Happy Birthday to you". When we said yes, he got a huge smile on his face. He then went on to tell us something he wanted for his birthday. Since he didn't know enough English to tell us what it was, it was hard to figure out! He kept saying it was circulo and white with mucho colors and lots of red. We kept asking if it was cake and he said no every time, he eventually started pretending to lick something. Maybe ice cream? No. Finally, he drew it. We realized he wanted one of those lollipops you can get at candy stores that is big, white, and swirled with lots of colors and also red. He is counting down the days until his "Happy Birthday to you"!

We are finally starting to get somewhere on our English! They are wanting to learn now and we are hearing more every day. Jason really surprised us when he said "Happy Birthday to you" because we have only sang it two times at most with them so we have no idea where he got it! Luke is really picking it up too! There is still a lot of Spanish but much less than there used to be.

Every Thursday we go to a friends house for a group writing class for Josh and Matthew. While they are doing that, the little siblings(and the big ones that aren't doing it ;o)) are upstairs playing and doing a craft. Afterwards, we all go down the street to their community park and tennis court. The tennis court has a couple of basketball goals along the side too. The older kids and anyone else who wants to, plays knock out. Jason has so much fun! He loves basketball! Luke discovered how much he loved basketball this week too!

The girls have been getting along great! You can usually find them somewhere with their baby dolls. They are easy to track down because if they are playing babies, you will hear them. Tatiana and Ashley always make their babies cry and so it is difficult to tell if someone is crying or if it is a baby doll! Many times we have gone to see who was crying and why and find two little girls with baby dolls in hand and their faces scrunched up in a mimic cry!

We started Jason, Tatiana, and Luke on the English alphabet after we got home. Jason knows all of the alphabet except for one and he will learn it quickly as he loves to learn! I think he will be reading before he knows what he is reading! It comes so easy for him and he wants more so we just found some easy math facts to try. Luke and Tatiana are having a harder time but are still picking it up pretty well. They both know about a third of the alphabet and the sounds the letters make.


The kids love to tell us thank you! At every meal, usually starting with Luke, then Jason, then Tatiana, they thank us for the food. They tell Mom first, then they go down the line. "Thank you Daddy, thank you Brianne, Thank you Kaitlyn." We hear it every meal. Also Luke sits at the table at lunch every day and sings Jesus Loves Me while he eats. It is soooo cute! I think that is his favorite song. It is the only one he knows in English.

Our first post placement meeting was today. It went great and it is a relief to have the first one done. This has turned out to be a long post so I better end here! I will put a few pictures as I know from experience, that is the best part of the post!

Kaitlyn







We stoped at a Gymboree clothing outlet a week before Valentines Day and found these really cute and very inexpensive outfits for the girls. We couldn't resist! And who can resist those cute smiles!




I love this picture of Matt and Jason playing in the backyard. Don't you love Matt's expression?

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